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writes:So, I asked a question yesterday about my LDR relationship. I'm afraid that my LDR boyfriend is cheating, quite openly too! He has tons of friends that are girls, I will admit that I was jealous at first, but I got over it. It never really bothered me that all the girls would comment on all his pictures, all ranged from "You're cute." to "Damn! I want you!".To save my fingers, here's my problem that I wrote yesterday: (Just giving you the background story.)"I decided to go onto his profile page and see his new pictures. I found a message from a girl that said, "I love you, John. This is my babycakes. I'll love you always and forever." So, naturally, I was a little jealous. So I checked out her profile. I was put into tears as soon as I saw it. She had him on the top of her friend list, she put "Loving my John" as her occupation, and had a picture of her holding a sign saying "Love you John. Forever." with hearts and lipstick stains on there. He actually only commented on the picture as, "Nice." I know she's not his ex. If she was trying to break us up, you'd think he wouldn't comment on the photo, basically encouraging it."So, here's my problem. I figured that maybe I should go back and see her page. I did, and I looked at the REST of her pictures. My boyfriend commented on almost all of them, saying, "Your bed looks comfy." "Damn, you're so sexy." "You are SO sexy." I was so completely destroyed. I texted him that moment and flat out said that we were over. He started getting all upset saying that he would never cheat on me, that I never loved or cared for him. He also said that his "friend" hacked his account and would flirt with girls. He kept saying that he only loved me, and wants to be with me. I told him that I just need some alone time and that I'd talk to him tomorrow.So, this morning we decided to go back out. Now, I think he's still cheating. I hate this so much. I want to break up with him because I feel like our trust is just completely destroyed. Not to mention I went back to that girl's page for the third time. If his "friend" REALLY was flirting with another girls then their grammar wouldn't be the same, (Y'know, taking vowels out of words. "rlly, bc, u, i") They were EXACTLY the same, it sounded like everything he would say, and does say TO ME. Should I confront him again? What should I say?
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reader, Philosophyzer  +, writes (15 August 2010):
 He is a rotten liar. End of story. Dump that scrub! You can do so much better!
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reader, person12345 +, writes (14 August 2010):
 Usually you should trust your gut. Friends hacking his account? I don't think so. You know it was him. I know it was him. The internet knows it was him. You should dump him and stay dumped. Even if he didn't cheat with her, it's completely disrespectful to you to be talking to this girl like that. And even worse to be lying about it. Not boyfriend material. You should dump him and find someone more deserving. As for what you should say? No pressure on you to spare his feelings as he didn't put much effort into sparing yours.
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