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writes:So i recently got back in touch with one of my ex's, who i broke up with 2 years ago, which was the last time i talked to her as well.I only intended to be friends, and well its been 2 years, i figured she would have moved on by now.. Her friend wanted to hang out, and so i told them if they wanted to hang out, just come to the county fair, ill be there almost all week.Well, shes been telling me that i can come over any time i want, and we should go swimming, and that her favorite memories were from we were together.So thats when i started to get put off a bit, and her friend told me i shouldnt contact her cuz she would just annoy me.. anyways i was on facebook this morning, and one thing caught my eye her status was:...but i get to see one of my good friends that i havent seen in 2 years.. im excited.. we are going to the county fair...cant wait..I can tell this is going to get extremely wierd if i continue to try to be friends. Should i be brutally honest with her, should i put up with it (i mean i can, and especially since i initiated contact, i dont want to be mean) or should i just casually lose contact with her again?
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reader, LLindy87 +, writes (14 August 2010):
 well she did say "good friend' in her status, not "my one and only lost love" or anything creepy. I think you should go to the fair like you said you would and give her a chance to be friends with her. If she pushes towards more, then tell her NICELY that you just want to be friends with her and nothing more.
There is no need to assume the worst here, just go and see ifyou have a good time. Drive seperately so if she does get clingy or something you can always book itout of there.
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