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What am I supposed to make out of what she said?

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Question - (13 August 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 August 2010)
A male United States age 41-50, *c_az writes:

What does this mean.

"I love you, I'm in love with you, but I don't love you as much as a wife should love you?"

I kind of understand it, but she's really upset with me right now. Shouldn't this be expected? A marriage counselor that we saw says that she feels that people fall in and out of love within a marriage depending on how everything is going.

Should I put anymore thought into this?

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A female reader, LisaSE Canada +, writes (13 August 2010):

LisaSE agony auntAs a woman, I can assure you that we are very complex creatures: we often portray very self-assured women while being terribly insecure. Maybe you could help assure her. Maybe it's a insecurity thing. The question "what makes you think that?" might shed some insight if she answers honestly. It could help! Either way, if that is how she feels, then something needs to be done and I don't think much can be worse in her honest answer than the possible long term effects.

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