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writes:My girlfriend (kelly) has an ex-boyfriend (josh) from several years ago that now dates her roomate (amber) who i am also friends with but never had anything but a platonic relationship with. She (kelly) ended it with him and remained friends with him throughout the years.Now he is constantly at thier house with his current girlfriend amber. I work a ton and i am not around as much as he is. Often the 3 of them hang out. Im pretty sure he doesnt like me and he still likes my girlfriend and given the chance he would get back with her in a second,allthough he always acts like he is trying to be nice to me and will never say anything rude to my face. My girlfriend kelly often tells me about how he is always asking her personal stuff about our relationship when his gf amber is not around. He asks her if she is happy with our relationship etc... I have know my girlfriend is not interested in him, he is a loser that can hardly hold a job and very needy. I feel like he is trying to undermine our relationship while all the while still trying to act like he is my buddy. I have tried to be very tolerant of the situation but lately it has really annoyed me. I want to kick his butt most times i see him. I think he needs to worry about his own realationship and let us handle our own. Should I confront him, leave it alone, or have my girlfriend handle it. Reply to this Question
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reader, 1stimenwin +, writes (14 August 2010):
1stimenwin is verified as being by the original poster of the questionLlindy, Amber and Kelly are good friends. The only reason i havent exploded on him is because i dont want to create drama in the house and create a bad living situation for my girlfriend because of my insecurities. Thanks for the advice i was very close to confronting this guy now im rethinking it.
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reader, LLindy87 +, writes (14 August 2010):
 are kelly and amber friends? How about Kelly goes and mentions causally to Amber that Josh keeps asking personal questions about your relationship. That way maybe Amber can do something about it.
I wouldn't do anything if I were you, if you trust your girlfriend then whats it really going to accomplish besides developing drama? Let either Kelly or Amber handle it.
All Kelly needs to do is tell Josh your relationship is none of his business next time he asks those questions
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