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writes:hi. i have a question. im a beautiful black 16 year old girl. and ive always been attracted to older white guys, well... white guys period. im very sweet and i luv to smile. do u think a white guy would ever date me Because i heard white men dont like black women? I'm afraid to flirt with one because im scared they would deny me! help.
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reader, KITcAThottie  +, writes (8 April 2011):
Some white guys do like black girls I kind of wondered that question my self because im black and I usually like white and tan guys so I wonder if they'd ever like me
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (13 August 2010):
 The only reason I can think of why more cultures don't mix, is because of stupid, ignorant, people who spend more time hating than loving.
I would rather hear "I am a great girl, looking to meet a great guy. I know what I like, and I am going after it."
Love has no colour. You can not make a cake with just one ingredient, you need to mix a few things together.
Mix up all the races and maybe we can get away from this black and white thing, and start calling each other...people.
Have you seen how beautiful mix kids are???
Just go do your love thing.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (13 August 2010):
 Oh a lot of them do, I can assure you that. It's more important that you find the 'right' guy who cares for you and loves you. If he's white (and he well might be), great.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (13 August 2010):
 I meant to say, I'm happy that my cousin is happy... but there are bound to be loads of guys like him... sorry, put my foot in it... oops
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reader, SirenaBlusera +, writes (13 August 2010):
Hi,
I'm glad you asked that question!
You can't generalize about ALL white guys or ALL black girls... there are billions of each.
I have a cousin who is whiter than I am- blue eyes, blond hair- and he thinks black women are amazing. Unfortunately he has a gf now but I'm sure there are loads of guys like him.
I think that there are many white guys who have a clandestine attraction to black women but feel forced to repress those feelings because of societal pressures.
My cousin lives in a big city that's open minded and socially more liberal. I don't think it's a coincidence, I think that more white guys than you realize like black women, they are just more likely to act on that attraction in more "liberal" cultures. If you live in the sticks of North Carolina (like me), most people stay with "their own kind." In Austin (Texas), on the other hand, interracial dating is more accepted =) yay! Don't be afraid, just get to know someone before you trust them at all because some white guys are decent, but some are players.
Hope this helps!...
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