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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Okay so I have been hanging out with this guy for a couple of weeks and everything has been good. The last time we hung out was cute we layed on his bed and wrestled with each other and he would tease me. When I texted him the next day he told me he liked me a bit but he didn't want to rush in to anything because of his ex girlfriend and him ended badly I guess. Now he's saying he doesnt know what he wants and he doesn't know what's good for him. I'm so confused now, I am not trying to push him into anything I just want to know if I'm wasting my time or what. Should I just back off, or wait and see what happens?
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (13 August 2010):
 I dont think he is playing you. 2 weeks is not long enough to become exclusive girlfriend / boyfriend.
If your interested in him, just back off a little and give him time.
Stay in regular contact but dont discuss issues like sex etc... or moving in together.
If he hasnt comitted after about 3 months then move on and find someone else.
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reader, sirbronson  +, writes (13 August 2010):
jump in and blow his mind, if you dont try it now you wont know n he needs 2 have his mind made up for him, then if it dont work, sweet talk your way back in as a friend only, he could turn out 2 be the best mate uve ever had. friendly advice from a mature guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2010): Oh he is interested in you, trust me. He is just jittery that you will be like the other lady and play him and leave him colder than before.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2010): jump in and blow his mind, if you dont try it now you wont know n he needs 2 have his mind made up for him, then if it dont work, sweet talk your way back in as a friend only, he could turn out 2 be the best mate uve ever had. friendly advice from a mature guy.
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