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writes:There's this lad- he's 17 I'm 15. He keeps telling he loves me and that he'd do anything to be with me! So I get my hopes up and then he goes and gets a girlfriend and ignores me. Then he'll come back to me a few weeks later and be like I'm sorry babe shouldn't of done what I did and then go and do it all again! I don't understand why he does it.... Why does he do this too me?! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2010): He does it because he can. My advice is to not let him come running back to you when he is not getting any attention elsewhere. In a way he is using you when he has no other girls interested in him. If he was really 'in love with you,' he would want to be with you. You are both too young to be worried about love.
Go and find a boy that wants all of your time, and not when it is convenient for them. You deserve more.
Good Luck :)
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reader, Fefi  +, writes (13 August 2010):
 sorry babe, but this guy is not right for you. he is just one of those millions of playboys that, when their (temporary) girlfriends expire, they go back to the innocent ones, just to keep his reputation up and probably even use you. to him, you are just the meal on the side, so, before its too late, i would consider that you find another man, probably closer to your age, because i dont think his definition of 'love' is not in the dictionary you're looking at.
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reader, 1stimenwin  +, writes (13 August 2010):
Hey im a guy and i do this too. personally when i say this stuff to girls i mean it, at the time. I know that I like a girl and i tell them i really like em and want to be with them. But really i am not ready to be in a monogamous relationship. It feels really good when i tell a girl that and i like the way she reacts, but i know in a short time im going to start looking around again at what else i could be having. I often cheat and this is how it all got started.
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