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writes: i like this girl who lives near me, ive always liked her but around 1 year ago she left my school so i havent seen her since then. i swear im in love with her, ive had loads of girlfriends but ive never felt the same about them as i do with her. my mum visits her house now and again, her mum and my mum are good friends, and her sister is friends with my sis. to be honest ive got no courage to go to her house and see if she wants to hang out with me. the thing is a love this girl, not just for her looks, but for her self in general and i dont want to go my whole life thinking "what if i did ask her out?". so please help I'll take anything, advise, exercises to build courage, i mean anything thanks for your time peace x Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2009): Feel your pain mate. love HURTS like hell. is it worth it. i dont know (i wish i did). anyway i can tell you from experoin that the longer you stay out of contact, the harder it gets to talk to her anymore. the best thing i think to do is the next time your mum goes round to there house, or they have a gettogether, and the girl is there. MAKE SURE YOU ARE THERE . trust me, the chances of you going out with this girl are next to none. the best you can hope for is to ask her if she wants meet up somewhere with you. a walk/town/shoping/cinemar/ would all be ideal, she schood (fingers crossed) be flatterd you asked her and say yes. And there are plenty of websites out there on prepering for a date. If she says no, Im relly sorry and i hope you can foget about her, because if you cant, a large dose of PAIN is heading your way ASAP. if you cant work up the courage to ask her, try to think up ONE qestion to ask her like, what did you do this summer holes, and that schold get the conversaiton going and help alot. good luck sir and i hope ive helped. (:
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