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writes:Me and my boyfriend had some set backs when it comes to us moving in together, he got drunk made a BIG mistake and slept with another girl, it was hard but we overcame it and got back together and then just a few days ago he started acting meaner, distant.. he planned on coming this past weekend to see me (he's 3 hours away) and then by the time that Friday night came we had an argument so he said he wasn't coming now. Well we kept fighting the entire weekend then Sunday I asked flat out if he's going to break up with me and he said 'I don't care fine you want an answer yes' ... he said a few cold words to me the next day (Monday) and hasn't talked to me since. I've sent him countless amount of e mails, IMs, texts... Nothing. It hurts so bad to the point I have no motivation to even get out of bed... I'm a nanny and have been crying in front of the kids. It's so painful and I have no one to run to but HIM and now he's gone. I asked him to please come this coming weekend and he said no he's going out of town, NOW I'm even more scared perhaps there is another girl in his life. I've never been so hurt in my life, and he won't even say one word to me no matter how much I beg and cry.What do I do? Has he stopped loving me? Is he sick of waiting? Will he come around?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you both so much for your advice.
He did end up contacting me today via AIM asking if we were going to give us another shot or not... He didn't seem very sincere, but maybe he's really that stubborn to the point he can't just say I love and miss you eh... But at least he talked! I have been praying to God... ;o)
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reader, shygrl86 +, writes (2 September 2009):
 The only thing you can do is let him go. I know how it feels, trust me. I was with my boyfriend for 4 years and I went through hell and back waiting for him to come around and love me the same as I loved him. I became suisidal and I lost contact with the world. You need friends. Go to a coffee shop and introduce yourself to someone. Preferably a girl because those are the best people to be with when your in pain. Sometimes they say that they don't care because they don't know how to handle the situation. But the only thing you are going to do by trying to get a hold of him is push him away. If he loves you he will call. Men are bigger babies than we are they will come back if they truly have feelings for you.If he dosn't come back then, you have the opportunity, which you may or may not want right now to find someone who does care.You have to be strong even if that means screaming and crying and kicking and punching your pillow every night because it hurts so bad. You will get through this no matter what the outcome.Keep in touch!
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reader, M.Morgan  +, writes (2 September 2009):
 Clearly he has broke up with you and is not interested i empathise and say that you need to move on i agree it does hurt and the pain will fade with time. In the meen time i suggest you get out there and find someone who will be faithful to you and treat you with respect. Move on he is realy not worth it.
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