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writes:Im so confused what to do....Im 23 yrs old.. I am in relationship with a guy(he's 5 years elder than me) for more than 10 years now.. we've been through many ups and downs... his parents knew about us and they had approached my parents without letting them know about our affair. By that time I was 19 or 20 so my parents were not that intersted but even then they gave it a shot.. and everything ended coz our horoscopes did not match.One year ago I got a call from his younger brother asking me if I wanted to marry him...I said 'no'because jus a day before he told me that if we marry...we wont have kids (nadi dosh) and his mother will not keep well because of me. After few days his brother calls me again and I said no again.Recently he got engaged to a girl..which I could not stand..than I stopped talking to him(which is like the toughest thing to do in the world) after a month I got a call from him and he said that I have broken my engagement and I want to marry you...he said that you give it a thought and talk to my mom about it. I didnt call her( I seriously donno what to talk about).But now I realise I cant live w/out him...I need him so much...I cant marry someone else.. and he wants me to talk to his mom but they are looking for a girl and they want him to settle down by this December..he says now you have to take action before its too late...Some of friends and relatives are against this guy because we fight a lot and the damage we cause to each other...I dont know what to do...should I call his mom and talk to her.. although situation seems to be out of hand already...I have given u my chances when they were after me asking me if I wanted to marry him...but those astrological things kept me rational and I said no...plz help
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reader, coffeebean86  +, writes (9 September 2009):
 If you are really so into him you wouldnt use excuses like astrological star signs make your decision - its so childish.
Move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2009): Don't understand your english. i am confused about which brother you want to marry, it really really wasn't clear. sentences like 'I have given u my chances when they were after me asking me if I wanted to marry him..' i don't get. Explain
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