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writes:I am married. and yet i find myself wondering about other woman. I have these fantasies i guess you could call them, and my wife isnt able to make them happen. She doesnt fit the act. What should i do? Before we got married, we talked of having a semi-open relationship, because she was Bisexual. Yet now she has changed her mind, and said no one in. I love her, and i did marry her for many good reasons, but that reason was one, and not to say a big one, but it made me get married then because i thought we would be a bit open. What do i do. Im young and to be frank, im not sure if i can have the same vagina for the rest of my life?
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reader, AgonyAuntBlondiee  +, writes (2 September 2009):
 I think that your wife's sexual orientation is her own choice and you should love her no matter what. In reply to the last part, i REALLY don't mean to be rude but you should have thought about that before you put a ring on her finger, there is always a risk that people change. I think you should tell your wife how you feel. Communication is key in any relationship and she needs to know how much the 'open' part of the relationship means to you.Hope this helps :)AgonyAuntBlondiee x
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reader, linz09 +, writes (2 September 2009):
 Well if you put it that way 'the same vagina' maybe you shouldn't have got married...but on the flip side your also thinking that way because your own relationship is stuck in a bit of a rut sexually, so you really need to spice things up in the bedroom and it doesn't have to mean going in search of a new 'vagina' as you so eloquently put it!When your in a long term relationship and you work at your sexual relationship together you actually will find you will get more satisfaction from it than looking elsewhere.Im sure you could suggest some role play, or possibly meeting up away from home and pretending to be strangers or visit an Ann summers and buy some things that you can use can choose and use together.You love her so work at things together and have some fun exploring each others bodies.linz :)
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reader, BettyBoup +, writes (2 September 2009):
 Well then you should not have got married. If you dont want to be with the same person your whole life, marriage is not for you. Simples. In this day and age you don't need to marry to have a good committed relationship with someone. Marriage is for life, if not, why bother?
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