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anonymous
writes: I am in a relationship with a man who constantly is flirting with other women. He has several female friends although I don't think they like him in the physical sense. He thinks that if he keeps it all on the table then there is nothing wrong. I think it is disrespectful to me for him to be flirting while chuckling and winking at me in the process. I think it is rude, embarrasing to both him and I and am becoming increasing angry about it. When I mention it he says don't worry I'm still with you. What should I do?
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reader, AlexCM  +, writes (2 September 2009):
dont put up with it if you feel like that make it perfectly clear that he has a choice. stop the flirting or dont be with you. simple.its not obviously upsettings you. and you have made your feelings clear if he cant stop his behaviour then he really is not that into you as he says he is! its not accpetable for him to behave like this! do what you think is going to make you happier in the long run. good luck honey x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2009): This guy could be genuinely fun loving outgoing and a natural flirt , but there are limits . It sounds like he is crossing the line , and you are getting hurt in the process . Firstly go on a date with just you two together and tell him how you feel about the behaviour . Say you love who he is in terms of his personality , but he needs to respect that you need his full attention, love , care and respect . Then let him take the comments on board and improve .
Additionally , take a few male friends along to your next date and compliment them . Let this guy see a mirror of his own behaviour . I do suspect that once a flirt always a flirt and you might realise this guy is not for you in time ....he needs to realise the consequences of his actions and hopefully soon before you get bored of it! Good Luck !
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