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writes:Okay, well there’s this girl I really like....let’s call her Charlote (not actual name) anyway..i think she likes me back but it is hard to tell the only real communication we have is via text and internet etc even though I do see her at school most days but when I do its just a simple hi or hey" I do get really nervous when I se her at school and she says that she does to. :) The other thing is I have this.....curse? and I've learnt to just live with it haha I seem to only fall for girls younger than me nothing bad ...just a couple of years :) eg I'm 16 turning 17 soonish and she’s 14 turning 15 also soon and to make matters even worse.....I have a sister the same age and they are good friends. I need some advice :) we do flirt via text and such so I think she does like me......what should I do? (My sister is having a party in a couple of weeks that she’s coming to) thanks :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioncool, thanks for the advice :P
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2009): Thats a cool curse : ) Okay, you need to be confident thats all. Look her in the eye(it does wonders), be yourself and talk to her for a while. Look out for her body language(smiles, playing with hair, lip bite...everything) and you should get an idea of how she feels about you. She probably likes you so if you ask out she'll probably say yes.Oh and the reason your curse is cool is that girls mature quicker than guys and naturally, teen girls like slightly older guys. Don't be nervous.EYE CONTACT.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2009): I used to have the exact same problem as you when I was about your age, difference being that I was actually dating the girl. She intimidated me and that's why it happened and it took almost two years of us dating for me to actually decide that me fearing her is ridiculous. I don't want to lecture with tales of how things were back in my day but I can tell you that we eventually broke up before I could really show her, in person, that I'm the same guy that she chats to.The regret that I live with is not worth the nervousness you feel now so I suggest you start things slow, trust me she wants things to be comfortable in person too. Play a little game or something, be a little silly and pretty soon you two will be able to get along in person as well.
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