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writes:Hey, So a friend of mine (it's true, it's not me!) is having some issues with her boyfriend. They met on the internet, and they haven't met in real life yet, however her parents are fine with it and they are meeting in the half term. Recently she's been worried because he apparently hates his ex because she was really mean to him. But my friend found on facebook that they had been talking loads and flirting. She isn't worried about that, or jealous, but she doesn't know why he lied to her about hating her? She is wondering whether she should ask him or just put it behind her? I would try and help but I am not very good at giving adivce =/ Thank you in advance! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2009): Hey! I can totally relate to your question cause I have friends who date online in games, but it sounds to me like he is mad at his ex for whatever happend, but that he's probably not over his ex, he's just on the rebound, which means he might take his ex back and break your friends heart if the oppertunity came up. Idk, but that's what it sounds like to me. Hope this helps and gl xD
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reader, LauraB +, writes (2 September 2009):
 hi, first of all you should be asking why she has got into a relationship with someone she hasnt even met yet. I'm all for meeting people of the internet but to me this sounds a little bit strange.
has she spoke to him on the phone? how long have they been in this relationship.
i'm trying to put myself in your shoes and act like this why my friend in the cyber relationship.
when people meet on the internet its very easy to lie, act like someone else, act like the perfect person.
why havent they met each other yet?
if i was you i would talk to her parents. i mean your only 13-15 so i'm guessing your friend is the same age, i do think thats a little dangerous to be meeting someone off the internet at that age.
if i was you i would try and ask her questions like why havent u met before u became boyfriend and girlfriend. she should ask him about the ex, because to me once someone lies, their is a good chance there is a chance he has lied about other stuff.
i wouldnt be saying dont meet him n all negative because she will probably become defensive n always defend him.
just try and ask her questions hun and try n talk to her parents.
xxxx good luck xxx
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