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*ameseys1990
writes:Hey me and my girlfriend have recently split up, but at the moment we're seeing how things go...things seem really good between us at the moment but I'm being troubled by a few things. She's just started college and is hanging around with a few guys there at college and i know it seems like nothing but on her first day she ended up chumming with 3 guys and now she was telling me she's been talking to an ex there as well. I dont know if im just being paranoid, we're still planning on moving in together so i guess thats a good sign but i keep thinking silly things and its really sarting to hurt me and she doesnt seem to care that this bothers me.What should i do ?
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reader, CupidGirl826  +, writes (2 September 2009):
Hello,
First off, you're in college and young. The chance of you and this chick having any long-term potential is slim to none.
You and her, will both be seeing other people, being more involved in the social college life, etc.
I don't advise moving in with her. I would break this off completely and keep your options open.
On her first day, she's talking to 3 men. I'm a student as well, at the end of a semester, ask me the name of the guy who sat next to me in a class for the entire semester as a million dollar question, and I wouldn't know it.
Meaning: She is obviously LOOKING to get to know other guys.
Advice: Don't listen to what a lover tells you, their actions speak louder than words.
The break-up will be tough, but you will move on. If she's talking to 3 guys the first day by the end of the week she'll wind up in someone else's bed.
Have a talk with her and let her know that you think it's just not working out between you two. And you're turning in your BF card.
In a relationship you (by your post) obviously need a chick who is committed to you, and only you, and probably one that doesn't have "guy-friends." Ain't nothing wrong with that, but you need to find a chick who can respect you enough to let you be the only guy in her life.
That will be HARD to find in college, but it's out there.
Let me know what you decide.
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