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writes: I like this one guy who doesnt really care about having a girlfriend!! So he doesnt bother to remember many pplz names so when my friend told him i liked him at first he thought i was someone else and then he just didnt know who i was!!! :(:(:(:(:;:;:(: i wassoo sad :'( so how can i show him who i am and be a somebody in his book and make sure he likes me as more than a friend!!! I need some experienced advice!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2009): tell me about itim 15 and i know exactly what you mean, ive been there done that and i did get with him in the end.i was just myself, i was confident and showed him that i was alot of fun and worth hanging round with. introduce yourself to him or get a friend that knows him to introduce you for him and if hes not looking for a relationship at the moment, then dont make it obvious that you are looking for one otherwise he just wont bother with you. once you have been introduced to him, start hanging out with him a bit more and more gradually, and become good friends before you do even let him know that you like him because you dont want to scare him off because he'll also think that our friendship is fake because all you wanted was to go out with him.if things go well, invite him places like to the cinema with some of yours/his mates so its a casual thing and nothing like a date and carry on doing things like this, even if it is going to the park in a group. and once you feel hes more comfortable, ask him somewhere, just the two of you and see how he reacts to it. x
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reader, Trewth  +, writes (2 September 2009):
 First things first! Before there can ever be a successful relationship between you two,you should at least set the foundation for a friendship, find out where he hangs out and the things he likes to do, more importantly what things the two of you may have in common.Introduce yourself and feel him out,he may even turn out to be a Jack Ass so never put him on a pedestal! Remember you are just as much as a catch as he might be so make him wanna "chase after"you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2009): He sounds like even if you were his girlfriend, he wouldn't do anything for you! as in he sounds like an A***holeso take a hint from the fact that he didn't know your name and move on x
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