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writes:here is the question i have affair with married woman, but she want to have kid with me , she says it will remain secret , please advise.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2009): so the married woman wants to have her lovers baby and also wants to pass it of as her husbands seed? 3 guesses how this mess will end up.
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reader, softtouchmale2003 +, writes (2 September 2009):
 My advice: This will not end well.
I would say that its probably a very bad idea.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2009): Is she having sex with her husband still? Is he impotent or is she having a problem conceiving with him? If so she could be just using you - do you want to be used? Do you want to be a Dad? When her husband finds out (which he will) he will kick her out and she will come running to you... do you want to live with her and a newborn child? Your question makes it sound like you have no choice in the matter - but of course you can walk away. The risk you now face is that she gets herself pregnant and dupes you into it. She doesn't sound like a really nice person if she is prepared to lie to her husband... she'll probably lie to you too. What kind of situation is it to bring an innocent child into. I'm amazed you are even considering it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2009): Hell No , you should put yourself in her Husbands position, youve already acted dishonorably. She is married. So be a man , grow a pair and try and date a woman who is actually availible.
Also think of the Child. Do you really want someone having your child and you having nothing to do with it, if thats your attitude, Im sorry but we cant help you.
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reader, CupidGirl826 +, writes (2 September 2009):
I won't advise you here, lol. This seems like a silly question and you no the answer, hell no.
Do you really feel comfortable something that's a part of you, being raised by somebody you hardly know and another man? That's your blood and apart of your generation line, apart of your family's generation line (parents, grandparents, etc).
If you feel comfortable with that, sure. Otherwise point her in the direction of the nearest sperm bank.
Good Luck
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