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My married, younger boss has started taking an interest in me..help!

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Question - (2 September 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 September 2009)
A female Spain age 51-59, *ettyloop writes:

Im 41 single never been married, no childern, and have just started really enjoying being in my 40s. About 3 months ago I landed a fantastic new job. but, 10 year younger married boss has now started showing interest. late phone calls at night with regard to work, nice compliments on the way i look, small 'by mistake' touches, and that i look so much younger. Expensive gifts, that I can use for my office....help!!! Help because I like been treated this way, and have started liking him a lot - but not by a married, younger boss....3 huge no no's.

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A female reader, bettyloop Spain +, writes (3 September 2009):

bettyloop is verified as being by the original poster of the question

bettyloop agony auntThanks so much, yes, you are right! It seems when I get feedback like this that it helps me all the more!! Besides its time for me to go our and find a special someone for myself, haven't had a relationship recently and Im really ready for one! Thanks girlfriend :)

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (2 September 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntYou really know what you have to do and that this relationship MUST not go any further. Do not be available for those late night phone calls that's what answering machines are for, make sure you keep your distance from him so he can't have those accidental touches, and make sure you accept those expensive gifts for your office only if they will improve your job performance. He'll get the hint and start sniffing around somewhere else. Don't go there girlfriend, that road goes nowhere but hell on earth.

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