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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:one of my close guy friends i like said he loved me and he even said he wanted to marry me and we went out for about 3 months then i dumped him. now a month later he says he's "deeply in love" with one of my best friends and wants to ask her to prom, i asked him to stop talking about her cause i secretly still like him and he won't stop talking about her even though he knows he's upsetting me. also he asked me not to say to her or anyone else that he loves her. he's sent me texts like 'i really want to ask her to prom and im worried she will say no, but i have no else who would want to go with me xx'. does this mean he's trying to make me jealous or does he really like my friend??
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2009): That 'there's no one else who would want to go with him' bit sounds a lot like he is trying to get a reaction from you to see if you actually care. The only other explanation I can think of (and this doesn't seem likely considering that text) is that he's very immature and fickle with his emotions, you know, saying he loves one girl one minute and another the next. In which case you're better off without someone like that being interested in you now and messing with your head.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2009): He's either remarkably insensitive, really trying to get back at you for dumping him, or trying to make you jealous. You say you 'secretly' still like him, but that he knows what he's doing upsets you. Isn't that a contradiction?
You can guess at this forever. Or you could just communicate.
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