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writes:i fancyed this boy for just over five years. when i soon plucked up the courage to ask him out before i could finish the question he repled yes. i had never been so happy in my life. a week after we split up because i was self harming again. soon after we had spoke i promised him i would never do it again and i didnt, still havent.few weeks later we split up and i was so upset i started makin myself sick i lost just under two stone. he still dont speek to me and its been months. just the sight of him makes me cry and almost everything reminds me of him. would you forgive me? what would you do?help!!!x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2009): Some people self harm for attention, others can't help it because it's a way for them to cope with hurtful or negative feelings, due to a bad experience from the past. Most people don't understand why some people self harm, and especially at his age he won't. He probably didn't know what to think or do as he probably hasn't been there himself. One of my ex's used to self harm and she has scars (on both arms) from her wrists all the way up to her shoulders. All i could really do was suggest she got help with her condition, but it is upto the individual to seek it for themselves. I think if you got some profession help it would begin to make you feel better in yourself, and give you the initiative to start thinking more positivly, then with a little more time, before you know it you'll be over your ex. Hope this made some sense, but i'm a little tired. Good luck!
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