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30-35,
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writes:I was told that I should try and be more dominant. She said it was something about how we cuddled that gave it away. How do I change? I sorta get the way to act but its the stuff like cuddling and kissing dominantly that confuses me. How does one cuddle or kiss "dominantly"? I really don't wanna mess this up.
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reader, Another_Kapiti  +, writes (15 November 2009):
 Firstly, don't feel that you should have to change the way you are to suit someone else! If you do want to accomodate her wishes, I don't think she means 'dominantly' as such, probably more like authoratively, she wants you to 'take charge' as such, kiss with passion etc!
Ultimately, if this makes you uncomfortable at all, you need to tell her so. She was attracted enough in the beginning to go out with you, so why have her feelings changed now? Be direct and honest with her about how you feel and give her the chance to explain what she wants from you. Good luck!
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