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*onnyDonaldson
writes:HelloRecently I've been dating this girl, we're both 18I've been with her for 2 months the problem is that when she goes down on me she kind of chews on my penis. I don't really want to say anything because I love her but if this carries on I'm gonna have to break up with her
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2009): typical with youth. TRY SIMPLE COMMUNICATION... end of story
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2009): agree with the posters above,whether its this GF or another one you have got to tell her what you like and be gentle about it.
Try praising her when she does gnaw on it by sying Oh i love it when you use your lips like that. she will get the hint , oh and the occasional yelp doesnt hurt either.
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reader, CupidGirl826  +, writes (2 September 2009):
Yeah, I agree with both posters below. She's down there to please you, she wants you to feel good.You need to tell her how you like it, she may not be that experienced. And even if she is, every guy is different, what her last BF liked you may not like. It's ok to talk openly with her on this, just be gentle/casual about it. If you're mature enough to have sex, you're mature enough to talk about it.If you don't tell her that you don't like it, how is she suppose to know...Good Luck P.S. As a chick, if a guy told me how he likes something, I'd be happy to oblige, I wouldn't take offense.
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (2 September 2009):
I think she would be MORE hurt with you breaking up with her, rather then you saying she hurts. Dont you think?
Be brave and tell her what the problem is. Something as simple as 'hey babe can you please be more gentle' will do fine.
Either you really hate confrontation or there is more problems in your relationship then what you have spoken about in this post. I dont understand how you could easily give up, when there is a simpe solution to this problem.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2009): She won't be hurt if you gently let her know that teeth don't work for you. If she's going to the trouble of doing it, she certainly wants it to be good for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2009): You'd rather break up with her than tell her to stop using her teeth? That's odd.
Next time she's at it, just say "Hey baby, can you try without your teeth?"
Simple.
~Sy.
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