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writes:I feel kind of stupid still talking about this situation as it has been a year since our break up. I was with this man who hurt me really bad emotionally. He lied and humiliated me. I really loved this man. Anyway fast foward I am living my life but I think about the way he treated me everyday and I don't know how to let it go. He is with someone new and seems very content, like I never existed. All of our mutual friends act like I have the plague. How do I stop caring, how can he act like he never cared and why am I being so pathetic. It's been a year will I ever have peace from this?
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reader, softtouchmale2003 +, writes (2 September 2009):
 It seems to me that if he doesn't care now, then he never cared. You had more emotions invested in the relationship than he did.
The best thing you can do is forget about him. People who do things like this are users. And you feel bad because he used you.
This is sad, but it happens. You have youth on your side and I am certain there are so many men out there who would be proud to take the time to spend with you, and given the right circumstances you could find yourself happy and loved in a real relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2009): hi ,
i really feel for you , an i'm in a similar prediciment , though it's only been 6 weeks since my break up .
you dont say exactly how this man treated you , but lies and humiliation, i'm only too aware of , and it ishorrible behavior. my only words of advice are try to remeber how he lied , and how this made you feel , you dont want to be subject to that again , and so you are much better off without him , and those memories . try to concentrate on how well you are doing now , putting your life back together , despite this amn's actions. the torment will get less , and maye you can allow some new caring people into your life.
i wish you all the very best
xx
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