A
female
age
30-35,
*ammybaby18
writes:hii everyoneIve been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3yrs (on and off). And I love him so much, but lately we've been having problems...well mostly its me with the problem bcuz he doesnt feel like hes doing ne thing. just like a couple weeks ago he was like the perfect bf...i mean we had our porblems but nuthing major, now it feels like there something thats pulling him away from me. B4 he use 2 call me all day and he use to call me every place he went, now he still calls me alot but its only when he gets home...which he only stays home 4 like 5 secs and then i always miss his calls but then when i try 2 call him back his phone is always busy like hes tlkn 2 sum1 else. Basically what im feeling here is that my bf is tlkn to sum other girl..or "other girls"...should i say because hes just acting different. The guy that i use 2 kno would literally ask to c me everyday and now a week will go by and he doesnt even mention seeing me like some other girl is taking up all his time. i mean i kno he loves me but then sometimes i wonder does he love as much as he says he does bcuz he really isnt showing it ne more. so i just really wanna kno is he cheating...hes cheated on me b4 like 3 times and i would break up wit him and then he would beg 2 be back wit me and so i would get back wit him not only cuz he begs but bcuz everytime i break up wit him...i miss him soooo much its like i cant live without him. Its gotten so bad to the point where i cant even talk 2 other guys ne more and b4 i could...like i kno it sounds bad but b4 i could never be faithful but now its like its impossible 4 me 2 be unfaithful cuz the only guy i want is him. And it kills me bcuz he doesnt even c how much i care about him..i mean i show him every chance i get..i give him ne thing he asks 4...sex, money, clothes... ne thing but at that he still thinks im cheating on him, which i have but hes nvr caught me, and now that im faithful its like he really doesnt believe mehe feels all women cheat. So i just want sum advice as in 2 wat should i do...or believe ...is he cheating on me...im actually 98% sure he is but since ive cheated on him so much in the past i feel like im getting wat i deserve but at the same time it hurts sooooooo bad 2 even think of another gurl touching him or being with him...i just..i wanna know wats going on in his head...he says im the woman he wants 2 marry but then i think does he only want 2 keep me around bcuz of how well i take care of him...even tho i didnt start doing all these things 4 him 2 just a couple of months ago bcuz im just beginning 2 be finacially stable but he isnt. So i wanna kno does he really love me 4 me?....and is he really cheating?...and does he wanna be wit me just 4 wat i provide 4 him?...plz sum1 give me answers...im so confused idk wat 2 do...and i also think im pregnant by him...smh:-/
View related questions:
cheated on me, money Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2009): well no offence but you are both as bad as eachother by the sounds of it, sorry but u cant love eachother that much if you have cheated on eachother, and you obviously dont trust eachother, if there aint no trust then theres nothing, it also sounds like hes cheating, maybe he aint. if you keep buying him things all the time hes gunna expect you to do it all the time. you give him money, sex and clothes? so what, that cant buy love and by the sounds of it you two shouldnt even be together until you know how to have a proper happy loyal relationship. and if you think your pregnant you should of thought about using protection, it aint fair if you bring a baby in the world when you cant even look after yourself and your relationship...you obviously have trust issues, and i can see why coz hes cheated on you 3 times, cheating once is forgivable but if its more than that then id say he wont learn his lesson, and as for you i think you should go and find a relationship where you can trust him and dont cheat on eachother. im younger than you and even i know how to have a proper loyal relationship. but anyways good luck and if you do think hes cheating im sure your find out in the end, they always get caught somehow.
A
female
reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (22 November 2009):
 He has cheated already, three times, so chances are he is cheating again.
You need to think long and carefully about where you see yourself in 2 years, or 5 years or even 10 years. Realisticly, is he still in the picture?
I think you need to build yourself (and you baby if you are pregnant)a new future without him.
...............................
|
