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I can't keep it hard during sex!

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Question - (22 November 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 November 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi, I've got a problem but I don't have a clue what causes it: Whenever I have sex with my girlfriend; whom i care deeply for; I sort of gradually lose my erection- like really slowly over 20 minutes or so- and no matter what (if she's performing oral or anything) I cannot ejaculate unless i fervently masturbate myself. I really want to give her orgasms and intense pleasure- and I did read that this may cause me to gradually lose the erection, but there must be some other way or some cognitive method to stop this loss of hardness? I'm not circumsized and use condoms; her arousal is never an issue. I'm 17. Thank you

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2009):

Buy horny goat weed!!!! My boyfriend had same issues now after I did some checking around I thought -try this and gave him the bottle! He swears up and down and so do I on this stuff... He has better orgasims keeps harder longer and more drive.... GO BUY IT DUDE!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2009):

Hey dont sweat about it most men can't.

Best thing to do is after about 20 mins when you start losing your erection, get her to slowly stroke your penis it will give you a slight tickling feeling that hopefully you will like and your get your erection back.

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