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I fancy him and keep bumping into him. I don't want him to think I'm a stalker!

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Question - (22 November 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 November 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Well, I like this guy, and I see him everywhere (and I mean EVERYWHERE). He works at a resturaunt that I frequent (not for him, but the food). The good thing is that he always smiles, waves and makes sure to have a conversation with me, but I'm really afraid that he thinks I'm a stalker or something.

I ran into him at a town function the other night, and although it was totally innocent, I can't help but fear that he legitimately thinks that I am a stalker.

How can I make sure that he knows I'm not really following him, but not stop seeing him?

Should I change the things I do, so that I can avoid him?

Or should I continue to hang out at the same places and ignore him?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2009):

I am in almost the exact same scenario. But please do not make the same mistake I did. I am not one to approach men because I am use to being the one approached. But there is something about this guy that makes me want to just talk to him about anything. The problem is that I ignored him a few times and now I look like a total snob. But others are right when they say that we tend to overanalyze things. Good luck!!

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (22 November 2009):

No, no no. If you like him, talk to him! He probably doesn't think you're a stalker at all, and if he's talking to you, maybe he likes you. If you avoid him, you'll end up hurt, if you ignore him, you'll hurt him. the best solution is to try to talk to him and say you'd like to meet him, no matter how hard it might be. If you don't say anything to him, he'll never know how you feel and you'll never know if he could have been the One.

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