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writes: im so hurt about this i really need your wonderful advice pleasei split with my ex this year after 6 years-during this time i have helped him out majorly financially it got to the stage where i felt this was all he was with me for as he never showed much love or affection. anyway last year it got to the stage where i had to declare myself insolvent because i had borrowed so much and with trying to pay the loans plus the majority of the rent i couldnt manage and he said he couldnt help. so i had to go throught the humiliating process alone with hardly any support from him-this year it got so bad i contemplated suicide-he knew this but said nothing. we split in march but since then i have paid 500 a month towards his rent because i felt guilty and now he wont say if hes still in the flat i feel so guilty i feel like a bad person and i cant understand why-whats wrong with me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2009): He sounds manipulative, and have absolute control over you. So much control that you dont even know yourself why you do the things you do or feel the way you do. Get help to get away from him, and to possibly get your money back. But first off, talk to the people you owe money, explain the situation and get worked out a plan on how you can pay back the money. Talk to a professional who can help you get out of this abusive relationship properly and help you understand what has been happening.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2009): stop feeling sorry for yourself boo u did rite to get rid of ass but its not your fault he did that
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