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writes:Ok, pretty simple question. I've been seeing this new guy for nearly a month. For about 2 weeks it's been getting serious. We are together almost every night when we both get off work. He never makes plans without me and I always invite him to every event I have going on (I have to do socials all the time for work). He is amazing, great body, great personality, treats me like a princess and I love it. We took the relationship to a physical level about 2 weeks ago and that's beyond amazing as well. He texts or calls me throughout every day (he's in the Army and I work 80 hour weeks so it's sometimes the only way we can talk is texting). Ok so I know you're probably wondering where the problem lies? Well it's ME. I want him to have the talk about being boyfriend/ girlfriend asap lol I don't know why he's taking so long, I guess it's just a guy thing. Every other relationship Ive ever had the guy has just said it... and this time it feels like its taking forever! Am I crazy? I feel like I'm being neurotic or something, I just don't want to be that girl thats dating that guy thats just not that into her!
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reader, Frenzotic  +, writes (23 November 2009):
 I've been in a similar situation, I realised some guys aren't going to be clear...the only thing you can do if you don't want to wait for him to talk, is to ask him yourself otherwise you'll be left thinking "what on earth are we exactly?"
I remember for me laying on the couch with my guy, not paying attention to the telly but thinking about when he was going to tell me what we officially were...a couple? or just two people testing the waters for now?...I realised he wasn't going to tell me any day soon, so I just asked.
I layed there and said to him "Darling, I need to know, what are we exactly?"...it hit him then(our relationship story is a bit of a complex journey)that we both needed to know what this was and yes it was made known then and there. =]
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