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36-40,
*illiemoo1
writes:From the 1st time my partner met we hit it off and from the 1st time we had sex we just knew we were made for each other but the 1st few times I spotted that he can't come from penetration and I'd have to wank him off or give him a blow job for him to reach orgasem.A few weeks as we were having a heated conversation on msn about our sex lives and new things we wanted to do together he admitted he cant cum through just penetration and never has with any of his sexual partners and that I'm the 1st of his partners he has ever spoke about this with. After asking him why he thinks he thinks he has this problem and he explained he was very quick to cum when he was younger and since he can't cum no matter what he dose!What can I do to help him I love him so much and want to give him what he wants!
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reader, bharat mehta  +, writes (14 December 2009):
 You both are lucky, a good and ideal couple. Anyway, you should enjoy '69' position. It is mutual oral sex play,both are working with each others sex-organ. It is the highest form of excitement, quite enjoyable. You can do it for hrs to hrs...and maintained hardest erection and we test vaginal condition.
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reader, milliemoo1 +, writes (6 December 2009):
milliemoo1 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Just want to thank you for taking the time to replying to my problem!
There is defiantly light at the end of the end of the tunnel!
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reader, milliemoo1 +, writes (22 November 2009):
milliemoo1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHello
Thank you for your reply and although I completely understand and agree with what your saying he dose not seam to see it that way.
He is probably one of the best sexual partners I have ever had and defiantly not the most selfish and we have fantastic sex and foreplay and he agrees but the problem still comes back to that he wants to over come the problem with me and be able to cum inside me.
We have tried every position, different places you name it. Am starting to think its a problem I can't help him with now.
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reader, Kenneth  +, writes (22 November 2009):
The solution to this is very simple. GO DOGGY STYLE i.e. rear end penetration.this way, he has 3 parts to play with...your behind, breasts and your clit.
He can start with other positions and end up doggystyle. I guarantee you, he will explode inside you. Wow!
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (22 November 2009):
 Well this one really hits home.
Will try to explain. Let's begin with the assumption that any sexual relationship between partners should at least include mutual satisfaction. With mutual agreement, that should include "whatever it takes." If partners do not agree to willingly do whatever is a reasonable and harmless activity that a partner requires for pleasure, whatever the gender, then the situation may not represent a very good match. Fun and love must be mutual.
It sounds that you are doing your part, with the blow jobs and all, but is he doing his part? As long as you are also always being satisfied, then what should it matter that he likes to finish orally?
We (men) love it, and many women today also enjoy finishing a sexual encounter orally. As previously implied, the progression of activity might go like this:
Foreplay (kissing and fondling), followed by more of it, then nude groping followed by things like stroking and fingering.
This followed by some mutual oral, during which the man increasingly focuses on his woman's clitoris using skillful technique and knowledge of cunnilingus. Also applying such activities as a G-spot massage with oral clit stimulation, and possibly more advanced fetish techniques, the man brings his woman to her first climax or more. They may be multiple.
A good period of intercourse follows, during which the woman enjoys additional orgasms. After being quite well-satisfied, the woman takes control of his manhood orally and totally drains him. Such is quite a mutually enjoyable relationship, with both the man and woman getting fair share. Actually, she cums out ahead . . .
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