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writes:I met this girl 1 and a half years ago...she was going out with some one else but i developed feelings for her...we both became very good friends and she knew that i had feelings for her..she was having a lot of problems with her boyfriend because he was supposedly cheating on her and she asked me to find out the truth but when i found out and told her she freaked out and started thinking i was trying to break her up. WWe ended on a very bad note..i called her after around 5 months and found out that she had broken up with her bf - she had apologized to my other friend whom she thought was breaking them up but she didn't apologize to me. We talked for 15 min and then later that evening she called but when i called her the day after she freaked out again but then we talked for 2 hours and at the end of the call she decided we shouldn't talk anymore!After around 3 months i called her again on her birthday she talked to me properly. After 2 months i messaged her on a festival she wished me back but that was it, we didnt talk after that! Now its almost 2 months and i really miss her and wanna talk to her - should i call her or would it seem too needy? 'Cause when i asked my friends they thought it would seem like i had no self respect.I am really confused...should i call her or not? please help me decided this cause i am really really out of mind right now.. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2009): Do not call her. move on. she sounds like she doesn't want to know you anymore to be honest and you'll only end up hurt if she avoids you again.
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