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anonymous
writes:Im in a new relationship (my first proper one). Im 22 and lost my virginity to her, every thing seems good but when we go to bed shes always tierd and i have a very high sex drive. We were having sex most weekends when we were together but now we havnt had sex for 2 weeks. It makes me feel like she dosnt want me and its realy effecting me, i tryed to talk to her she said that i last to long and she has a low sex drive. Then last night she told me she has a high sex drive but i just need to learn to be faster its just realy bothering me and i dont know what to do. She has a lot of male freinds and still texts and talks with her ex's. It makes me think maybe she is going somwhere else and is bored with me. We have only been together for 2 months and im starting to think maybe she dosnt want to be with me as much as i want to be with her. When we first had sex she said it was amazeing and couldnt belive it was my first time, im just confused why shes acting like this and i feel realy down about it.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (22 November 2009):
Wow, you sure are getting yourself wound up over this.
You've only been together for 2 months so if you can't handle the fact she has male friends then I suggest you end it now and find a girl who is less social.
As for the sex thing, all I can say is that if you are not compatible then you are not compatible.
Try going to bed a bit sooner, or again, if she just has a low sex drive then she may not be the girl for you.
Good Luck!! xx
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