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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: I am friends with a guy whom my parents dislike due to his previous history of illnesses and the shy/rude way he came across when they all first met. Me and him get on fairly well, and he is very chirpy and fun around me. We used to hang out in town on our first few meetings but later invited each other round to our houses. I live at home, so need to inform parents when someone's going to come round. I told Mum earlier, and she was not happy at all. She told me that if I liked meeting him, to go to the pub or something but no where near our house, as I am not ready for sexual activity yet and that guys and women can never be friends without sex. I agree with her, but at the same time, I am quite keen on him, and don't know how to reach a happy medium whilst living at home. Please help.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (22 November 2009):
Well you seem to want your mum's approval so you just have to tell him, "Since you were so rude to may parents the first time you met them, you can't come round to mine."
Then you can either grow up and discover you CAN have male friends with out jumping on them, OR you can hope he likes you more than that, get him to apologise to your parents and take it from there.
Good Luck!! xx
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