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Calming advice needed about pregnancy scare

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Question - (22 November 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 November 2009)
A male South Africa age 30-35, anonymous writes:

help!

i was stupid enough to have unprotected sex and im worried about my gf. it was our first time, and we mainly just tried getting in comfortably etc no full on fucking. hence i didnt come close to cumming, and i wasnt in her for more than 10 mins.

due to the fact i probably didnt penetrate too much because of stretch factors and pain thresholds, are there any chances she is pregnant? my gut tells me no but i very anxious.

i realise it was very irresponsible, please dont baby me or stick a link to safe sex or whatever, i do have protection.

so yeah any calming advice appreciated.

thanks

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2009):

Likelihood of getting pregnant is kinda low even for those trying to get pregnant. But you know, it happens to those who least expect it it seems. You have reasons to worry. She should take the morning after pill or start on birth control for the next time around.

If its already too late for the morning after pill (needs to be taken within 3 days) all you can do is talk to her about your concerns. Also discuss what you will do if she gets pregnant! Many who start having sex dont ever think about the possibility of pregnancy, hence they never discuss is, and so they experience more troubles once the accident has happened. Discuss the matter with her! And then all you can do is wait for her period to come. And after 2 weeks I believe you can take a pregnancy test.

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A female reader, LilPixie United Kingdom +, writes (22 November 2009):

LilPixie agony auntOnly thing you can do is wait till her period is due and hope she is on time, if not take a pregnancy test.

You don't have to ejaculate inside her to get her pregnant, pre-cum can do just as good a job.

I think chances are very slim, but as said, all you can do is wait till her period is due. It's important neither of you stress out about too much though, as that can cause a late period...

Good Luck

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