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writes:>my wife told that she saw some thing at her home some times back. once she stayed at her maternal aunt's house, and she observed that her aunt and aunt's son are very close that mother changes in front of son and some times son enters moms bathroom for some or the other reason.the son is 17+.looks like they have sex. my spouse tells that her aunt speaks very freely about matters of sex with her son.we doubt that they have sex. this aunt is very close to my spouse also. i feel like to be bit more protective.is there a chance of a mother does sex with her son? does these kind of things really happen?
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reader, merlot53  +, writes (1 September 2010):
I think that every one should mind there own business!Rumors like that can ruin the families!
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reader, CoolAndCoolest +, writes (7 December 2009):
CoolAndCoolest is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for all suggestions!
i for got to mention one thing, that she had parted with her husband and raising her kids alone.
actually in the big family there is a talk that she is misguiding her son.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2009): "and she observed that her aunt and aunt's son are very close that mother changes in front of son and some times son enters moms bathroom for some or the other reason."
So what? Okay, I'm female, maybe that makes it different, but my mother also sometimes changes in front of me or walks through the house from one room to another naked. She does this because it's not weird for her and her parents did the same when she was young (and because she is a chaotic person and might think of something she has to do on the computer and then forgets she was still changing). Nakedness doesn't neccesarily have anything to do with sex.
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reader, CoolAndCoolest +, writes (24 November 2009):
CoolAndCoolest is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe wish to think in marie's line. thanks.
we felt a little embarrassed when somebody else mentioned it. that is why all the concern. basically we have to leave them to live their life, that's correct.
and personally i do not feel incest in a bod thing. but may be society follows it for good reason.
i personally feel that, marie is a good point of contact.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2009): Something to consider also if the son is fatherless and was raised with his mother (single Mom) then the relationship is properly real close and for those looking in from the outside it would appear to be to close.
Personally I would mind my own business. In answer to the question, do Moms have sex with their sons? Yes, they do and it's why the word incest was coined years and years ago when behavior like that was considered normal even brother and sister sex as well.
Religion came along and made it sin.
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reader, CoolAndCoolest +, writes (23 November 2009):
CoolAndCoolest is verified as being by the original poster of the questionmarieclaire,
you seem to be correct. but i am not clear about the under arm hair part.
do you mean to say that it is not a sexual behavior to get such help from son. this is just reading thru the lines. i did not get it.
these were some of the things:
but i think if somebody see them mingling, they will feel they are partners than mom-son.
if to suggest to them what is the best possible way?
cos, we have heard another relative also mentioning about this. that is when my wife spoke to me all these things.
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reader, CoolAndCoolest +, writes (23 November 2009):
CoolAndCoolest is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwhat we thought of is, whether we have to point to her aunt about this as inappropriate.
but your points also seems good. and we cannot quite judge by all these signs. may be they are very open and in correct relations.
but there are several incidents that my spouse saw and witnessed, which this mom n son thought they do in private.
for eg: my wife, when she stayed there, saw her aunt getting her under arm hair removed by her son.
some times she listened to her aunt playfully telling at her son sexually explicit matters about other girls/women neighborhood [this she heard many times].
still I believe the comments from Taero are very much valid too.
but now it is a matter of whether or not to indicate this relative about it. problem is, if they are in sexual relationship it will hurt them. and my wife does not know how to tell. any how lets wait and see.
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reader, Taero  +, writes (22 November 2009):
Looks like you're basing you assumptions on the fact that the mother gets naked in front of the son. Is there something to be ashamed of by being naked? For many being naked =!= sexual, if the son is not bothered by it then there's no problem. There may be something in his aunts bathroom he needs? What you're seeing is your own views transposed over the actions of your relatives, their own views may well be different.
Of course there could be something going on but I'm afraid you need more than the nudity, after all some people go to nude beaches as a family but it doesn't mean that they're all having sex.
Source: Child Protection Training.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (22 November 2009):
I'm afraid things like this do happen. but they're very hard to prove. If you're worried, then maybe just watch carefully a bit more often. It does seem a bit weird for her to be changing in forfnt of him at his age, and for them to be sharing the bathroom together.
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