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writes:Hello Guys, Iam just curious. what makes guys hard their penis? and when their penis getting harder, does it mean that they take a pleasure? what is that mean supposed to be?I have a bf and untill last week when we kissed , his penis was always hard and want me to give him a hand job .. since yesterday it goes down quickly so he doesnt want me to do hand job... does that mean that he doesnt take pleasure with me anymore?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (22 November 2009):
He could be stressed, he could be neverous about something, or tired. There are a million reasons and not one of them means he doesn't find you attractive. Be patient, and it will be okay. Just don't make him feel under pressure, or it'll get worse.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2009): Hi,
I just wanted to say that does not mean he does not take pleasure in you anymore. There could be numerous reasons why this is happening.
Here are a few i can think of right off the top of my head.
1. Its natural.
2. A handjob routine has become boring to him and he craves more. (If your uncertain, this may be a tease, but get things a little more hot between you two and see if he responds in a different weay.)
3. You didnt mention his age but around the adolescense age, us males, seem to have frequent for no reason erections.
I'm 19 myself and started dating my baby's mother around the age of sixteen. For the first few months (3-5) we did nothing sexual besides oral. At first i would become erect as soon as i sensed the mood heading in that direction. But after a few weeks or so the thought of oral seemed incomplete and i craved more. I think she either realized this by my erection taking longer to become completely erect or by my time taken to ejacualte "cum". But either way after one time where she was unseccessful in making me ejaculate she began getting more intimate. THis brought my erection to full mast in no time. Lol. I personally sexually matured fast, but at first always wanted more. Fact is, males sometimes at younger ages seem to hate repitition alike with woman through out their lifetime. lol. THis was my personal experience. There are of course negative options but i wouldn't worry about it shawty.. Things happen and its probably more rational than it seems. I suggest maybe...Asking him? lol. Bring up the fact you've noticed change in a way that in case its nothing he's noticed wil not make him feel insecure.
Best of luck.
-Tha Truth-
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2009): maybe he's stressed, maybe he feels sick, maybe he's nervous. just don't ask him or pressure him about it and it will work itself out
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