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writes:I'm a sophomore in college, and I find myself in a bit of a bind. I have not been in a relationship in over three years now. While I normally would not complain about this, I have my eyes on a girl who graduated the same year as me from the same high school. We've kept in touch ever since (she goes to a college a few hours from mine), and even hung out when we both happen to be back in town. We have a lot in common; same favorite singers, sports... Anyway sometime last year, we had been instant messaging and she asked me if I liked her, I explained that I did, and she said she only saw me as a friend. We've still been friends since, we still hang out, the whole she-bang (we're actually closer now I think because of that conversation)... and I'm still really crazy about her. Is it right to tell her again how I feel (hopefully in person this time), or do I just treasure our friendship? I feel like the worst case scenario is making our friendship even more awkward, but I honestly think she's the girl of my dreams! In the meantime, I'll continue to treat her well. Thanks for the help. Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (22 November 2009):
She's said she wants you as a friend and nothing more, so don't say anything to her, because youo'll get hurt and she'll run a mile. There will be another women out there who will love you.
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