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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I can't stop having sexual dreams about me and my ex, i've been told its natural etc but its not how i am - I'm quite a shy girl and never used to think about sex really. Unlike my friends I'm in no rush to have sex, mainly because I'm quite childish i no that's silly. Me and my ex were never intimate (never even kissed) we're best friends now, I still have feelings for him but i know he doesn't feel the same and it hurts but i have to move on. I want to know how i can stop these dreams? I burn up when I'm talking to my ex sometimes because the dreams pop into my head. Thanks for any advice much appreciated x
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (22 November 2009):
Hormones can make your brain do strange things, so it could just be a certain time of the month or another bit of puberty that you have entered.
We all have weird dreams about someone we have no real interest in in real life.
So just accept that these dreams are fun, but just your brain overdosing on hormones, and try and act normal.
Be yourself as you sound pretty cool, never stop being childish. I'm 26 and got up early to go kite flying with my friend before work the other day. I know of no one else that would enjoy that.
Good Luck!! xx
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