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writes: Dear aunts, I'm 16 and my now ex bf was 18 (just to put it out there) we broke up about a month ago now... even tho it feels like it was yesterday. im so depressed. i keep putting on a fake smile, trying to act like im fine without him, but im not. its horrible. there are other boys who are interested in me but i only talk to them to try and fill the void of losing my bf. hes the only guy i want even tho our relationship wasnt that good. he now hates me because his best friend, sarah, says she doesn't like me. shes ruined our whole relationship from the very beginning. he would never stand up for me when she said bad things or acted nasty and it would always be my fault if i got upset. now he wont even look at me. we have broken up before but always got back together. this time its really over and i dont know what to do anymore. He's the only guy i want and i cant figure out whats wrong with me that made him completely leave. i dont know how to move on, i think i loved him. i saw myself being with him for a long time no matter what. he was amazing in my eyes, no matter all the wrong he did. i want him back so badly. im dead behind the eyes. help. what do i do? I've been trying to move on but i cant and just seeing him rips at my heart. i have to see him every day in school and i cant take the way he looks at me. with pure anger. i don't know what exactly he thinks of me anymore or what sarah has told him or anything. i don't know what to do. please, advice or insight needed. thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2009): hun its only been a month.. there a girls and women out their that still ache of a broken heart after a year or two.
Its natural for you to feel this way, and i know you have most probably been told this before, but your young its just one of lifes lessons, you will meet someone else who you will most probably feel the same about.
Your young, live and love life, go out and have fun, you'll soon forget all about him and you never know you might find someone better :D
good luck.
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