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writes:i have lived and been going out with my boyfriend for nearly three years. in about the last few months i have developed feelings for one of my close friends. i have tried to forget about it, but just recently i have fallen in love with my friend. its wired because i still have feelings for my boyfriend and can see us being together forever, but i also want to be with my friend. i dont know what to do. shall i tell my friend the feelings i feel for him? or forget about? Reply to this Question
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reader, desertrose899  +, writes (23 November 2009):
Every relationship has it's up and downs. I've had the EXACT same feelings. You love your boyfriend but you want something exciting and new right? So I'm from the south right? So I have a song that will help you out (even though I don't think you're going to cheat).
Well I aint saying that looking's a crime
Well I've done my share from time to time
It don't mean that you gotta take that leap
When you're standin' on the brink
Before you jump you gotta step back and think
There's price for ever promise you dont keep
Then what, what you gonna do
When the new wears off and the old shines through
And it aint really love and it aint really lust
You aint anybody anyone's gonna trust
Then what, where you gonna turn
When you cant turn back for the bridges you burn
And fate can't wait to kick you in the butt
Then what?
Point is, if you love your boyfriend and you're happy with him why risk it?
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reader, Dinkie +, writes (23 November 2009):
you shouldnt tell your friend, you would lose your boyfriend and you dont want to do that, try not to think about your friend to much,
try to do some interesting new things with your boyfriend to help you
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reader, desertrose899 +, writes (22 November 2009):
Every relationship has it's up and downs. I've had the EXACT same feelings. You love your boyfriend but you want something exciting and new right? So I'm from the south right? So I have a song that will help you out (even though I don't think you're going to cheat).
Well I aint saying that looking's a crime
Well I've done my share from time to time
It don't mean that you gotta take that leap
When you're standin' on the brink
Before you jump you gotta step back and think
There's price for ever promise you dont keep
Then what, what you gonna do
When the new wears off and the old shines through
And it aint really love and it aint really lust
You aint anybody anyone's gonna trust
Then what, where you gonna turn
When you cant turn back for the bridges you burn
And fate can't wait to kick you in the butt
Then what?
Point is, if you love your boyfriend and you're happy with him why risk it?
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