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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: Am I normal or do I need to speak to someone, I am 24 (virgin) I have never had a proper boyfriend, on work night outs, guys are always hitting on me, saying what they would like us to do together and hitting on me big time, I think most people at work know that I have never been with a guy and that's why they keep making these comments but the thing is the thought of actually sleeping with someone scares me so much and thats why I have never done it, I always thought if I found the right person, I would be ok, but deep down I know that I would end up blowing them out because I don't have a clue what to do. A few years ago someone actually asked me to go down on them, and I freaked because like i say i haven't got a clue and i am terrified of messing up. HELP!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2009): Have you been in these situations with people who you are in love with? Because if not, then maybe that's why. If the person, then i think you would feel comfortable enough to tell them how you feel about sexual activities and ask him what to do and to help you out.
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