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*marie
writes:Ok well I haven't had sex in a year because I'm scared to w/my husband b/c we've had 2 kids my last 1 3mos ago. But the reason I haven't is b/c after my 1st child my vagina was very. Loose to him. Now to me nothing changed it was still great but he says it just too loose. Now I'm doin keagle exercises but during the time that I'm waiting is there anything that I can use to tighten it up temp. Just so that we can have sex and I not worry. Abt it being loose and him not enjoying it? I've heard of "like a virgin" by Pure Romance its suppose to last 18hrs does it really work? Or is there anything else thatll work?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2009): I think its a mantal block that your husband has developd, perhaps!
I have friends who have had this exact problem and the bottom line is that your husband may be sub-conciously freaked out by the fact that babies have come out of your vagina, and therefore think it feels a lot looser than it is.
Of course keigel exercises are good, not just for him but for your pleasure too!
So while I would keep up with the exercises, maybe talk to your husband about how he feels about you having had kids, from a sexual point of view!
Secondly, I would be very wary about using somethinglike V-cream, first of all, using any sort of oil based lubricant (eg vaseline which is a key ingredient in these creams) will make condoms much less strong and much more likely to break, I dont know if youre using condoms but its something to be aware of!
next, putting anything into the vagina like that and leazing it there makes you much much more prone to infections and the like!
I hope this helped!
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reader, Trias21  +, writes (9 May 2009):
I actually think it's not you - but your husband is having a problem.
Even if you'll tighten up - he might come up with the next excuse.
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reader, The Gentle Man  +, writes (9 May 2009):
 Have you tried different positions ?
If not, i'd look up different sexual positions which might help.
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