There is a guy in my class who acts very nervous around me and acts like he doesn't want to talk to me, what do you think is the problem?

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

There is this guy in one of my classes that I think might like me. He always stares at me and when I look at him he looks away really fast or pretends to be working. If he is with his friends they are always staring at me and when I look at them they tell him and he looks at me then looks at the floor. He has friends that I don’t even know who walk about me as I walk by. They talk to other guys I don't even know or they will talk to him. They always stare at me too. When I walk past this guy in the hallway he starts to mess with his hair. He walks really fast and walks with his head towards the ground. We sometimes meet in the intersection at school and everyday I see him look down the hallway he knows that I walk down. He won’t talk to me. Like one time he needed something for class and he asked all the people sitting around up except for me when he saw what he needed sitting on my desk. One day he needed something that was behind me and instead of asking me to hand it to him he asked the guy next to me to get it which he just asked me to hand it to him. If I'm talking to one of his friends he won’t come near them. He waits off to the side. A couple day ago we were sitting in a group and he was all bys himself. When he finally came over to us he sat off to the side in the other row of desks when there was a seat right in front of me. I also noticed if I look him in the eyes he looks really nervous. Why is he acting like this? Am I making him nervous?

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