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writes:okay so i am like in love with this guy but he has a girlfriend. he lives in a different town but we are pretty good friends. every time i talk to him on msn and ask him what he is up to it is always oh i just got back from hanging with my girlfriend or my girlfriend is coming over tomorrow. and with this guy i get this feeling that i have never felt before i feel sick but in a good way.i always dream about having a future relationship with him but i feel as it will never happen. every day i talk to him i pray that his girlfriend has broken up with him but it never happens. so how do i tell him how i feel with out ruining our friendship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2009): Umm how about you back up girl.Think about it if he breaks up with her for YOU then he'll do it all over again and break up with you for someone else.So, why don't you get a life besides this guy.Because i have a bf that i love and if i knew some girl was talking to him this way i would be pissed off as hell.So you need to one get over him two go find some other guy and get out there and do other things.good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2009): Look, he has a girlfriend and that's that. If he wanted to be w/ you he would be w/ you. Focus on the reality of the situation, and please... respect the girlfriend. Don't ruin your friendship w/ him b/c you have a heavy crush on him.
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reader, Ignorance +, writes (9 May 2009):
Girl, get real. That's a very selfish thinking you are having but you are excused because of the young of your age. Have you thought that the two of them maybe very happy together? It's selfish to pray for them to brake this happiness in order for YOU to be happy and God is not gonna listen to such prayer I think.
I would suggest to move on and find a guy you like who is available, it's not a good idea nor moral to mess with a guy that is taken. Would you like to have this done to you?
Take care, see this as an experience, we can't always have what we wish in life :)
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