A
female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:i met this guy and we have alot of steamy attraction between us...however we have 2 different cultural backrounds.and i think he shows me alot of attention but i dont think he wants to risk his friends and family knowing he is stepping out his race...how do i find out if he is experimenting or really interested...by the way he lives in another state ..he will take the time out of a busy day to drive 45 mins going and comming to spend time with me...im confused What do i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Who +, writes (10 May 2009):
 “What do i do?”
1. Decide what you want in your relationship.
2. Ask him what he wants. He may not know right away; if so give him a little time to think about it.
3. When he tells you what he wants, you tell him what you want.
4. Discuss the above and you will either come to an agreement on what you both are putting in and getting out, or you won’t.
5. If you come to an agreement, Montour for a few weeks/months and see if he is holding up his end. Some men (not saying your boyfriend) will tell a woman what the woman wants to hear, and what dp as they say. Be prepared for this, and know the only cure is moving on and finding a new guy.
Best of luck and hope this helps.
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