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writes: Last night me and my boyfriend were having sex. We hadn't been able to have sex the whole week, so we were both very turned on. We were on the couch, he was sitting and I was on top of him. We were face to face. Suddenly I noticed it was taking him longer than usual to cum and that he didn't seem as turned on. He told me we should do it doggy style. This has happened on a few more occasions before, usually after missionary, that he doesn't seem as turned on and he wants to change to doggy. Is this because he didn't want to see my face so he could fantasize about someone else? We started doing it doggy style and he had an orgasm like a minute later. I've never asked him why this happens, with missionary it could be because he gets tired, ok, but last night there's no way he was tired, he was sitting down, if anything I should've been tired (which I wasn't). Is this because he needed to fantasize about someone else to cum, not see my face, etc.?
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reader, PD  +, writes (14 June 2009):
Have you tried "The Inverted Missionary Head to Toe Sex Position"? This is the Missionary position with the giver (him) lies back on the bed and the receiver (you) on top but facing the giver's feet. This position allows him to lie down as if Missionary, but allows him to see your rear fully. If this position also turns him on, then likely he's the type that loves a pretty rear (like me). Thus there's no need to worry about other things. I also love to see my wife's rear. In fact thinking about it turns me on. So may you be the goddess to your "slave" man for a good lifetime.....
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reader, Lost N Words  +, writes (13 May 2009):
Well have you been noticing anything else different about him?
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reader, anon22m +, writes (12 May 2009):
in my opinion i dont think its that he doesnt want to see your face. it just sounds like he likes doggystyle better, thats all! i wouldnt worry about it, honestly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2009): Without sounding like an idiot, but maybe you need to up the tempo on your riding style/vary it a little more.
Men can often last a lot longer when the lady's on top. maybe cos they're not in full control of where exactly the penis goes and the thrusting motions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2009): Doggy style feels far more intense than having a girl on top in my experience. When I have my girlfriend get on top, it's to enjoy the moment, because I can last forever that way. When I take her from behind though, there is no chance whatsoever of going all night. Perhaps your boyfriend has a similar experience.
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reader, LIERIN +, writes (10 May 2009):
 oh God ... I love doggy style .. lol ... I always wanan do it that way ... I dont see anything wrong with that ... everyone likes different positions ... its not about not seeing your face ... sex is sex ... its not as serious as people take it ... its SEX ... whatever you like, goes!!!
Its not about you, he just likes looking at your butt ... it must be a great view ...
Try doing more positions ... missionary and on top get boring after a while .. there is sooo many different ones ... explore girl !
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2009):
I don't think he was doing it to fantasise about someone else. I think he enjoys doggy for the reasons i have said below....
the suggestion for riding - well that way you have control of which way round you and he are.. just a suggestion.
Satin is right talk to him, but really dont think its anything more than above. however he is the one who would know....
Star.x.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2009): Um, starfish, I WAS on top yesterda... he was sitting back and enjoying, then he wanted to change to doggy... read again...
*original poster*
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2009): no...stop being being paranoid....
doggy just means he is in you in the most correct way for a four legged animal (we have four limbs so similar...) and it just touches a boy in certain way sometimes with the right amount of friction in the right place....then it can be explosive... :)
suggest you go riding? that way he gets no choice but to sit back and enjoy the ride....yahoooo
Star.x.
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