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writes:I am 14 in a couple of months. I am not sure if it is weird to love someone. I know I am only 14 and have been in this relationship for 5 months so... is that too early to love someone? I do love her and will do a lot of things just to be with her. Also it seems like she wants to do "sexual things" but I think it's kind of young and all the problems that can occur during sex, handjbs, etc. So I don't know if it is emotional for her and she wants to get me happy? I am happy with how it is now. Idk about it I mean I am a hormonal teen so what do I do. I don't want to make a mistake and ruin this. :] thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, jessica04  +, writes (9 May 2009):
 You're young. It's not uncommon for all of your hormones to make you feel rushed into feeling love. Your feelings are valid, just understand that at your age they are intense and fleeting. It's not your fault, your brain just isn't fully developed (blah blah, psychology blabber).
On to your question, if you are thinking you are too young for this kind of stuff, then odds are that you are too young. It is good that you are taking a step back to recognize how you really feel, and to evaluate what could happen if you take things further without being ready.
If you feel like you would like to wait, then wait. If she can't wait, then its ok, she can go find someone else if she wants. I think it would be very unwise of her to let someone like you go. She would be the one messing things up, not you.
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reader, turtle86 +, writes (9 May 2009):
turtle86 is verified as being by the original poster of the question :] Ayyt buddy thanks. That helped more than you probably think. :] Pshh and I am not getting a kid now or in the next years that is just foolish. :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2009): If you love her then i don't see a problem with messing aorund. You're young but it seems like a good relationship. I don't know of harm that comes from hanjobs honestly, but i don't know everything. Just don't have sex. Please don't. I'm tired of answering questions from people who are confused because they're pregnant after having sex. Wait until you are completely comfortable.
If you're not comfortable messing around at all because you don't feel you're ready, then don't. I'm just saying that if you do evetually feel like it, i don't see anythign wrong with it.
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