I feel so stupid and used

A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

hey.. my ex broke up with me 7 months ago since then weve slept togther on a few occasions the last one he made me thinkl he was in love with me because of the way he was acting .. im still madly in love with him and cant sem to get over him at all no matter what i do hes always in my thoughts... i slept with him because im still really in love wiht hiim and thinking he might be still in love with me.. 2 weeks ago he was texting me wantting me to sleep with him i didnt though.... a weeek later hes in a relationship which is a long didtence one .. im sooo guttered i feel soo used and stupid it hurts soo much,, i txt him theother day telling him how hurt i am cos of what he has done and leeting my emotions take control .. it wasnt the nicest message but it had to be said cos ive been so nice to him after everything he did .. he didnt reply 4 a few days but when he did it was at 1:00am he cracked it at me saying that im full of shit and that it hurt him with what i said to him.. so i txt him to say i wanted my shit back cos ive waited soo long 4 them back so i decided i had enough .. he told me to come over and get them so i did .. when i was there he was asking me y i said that he was an asshole and i told him he hurt me and shit.. any way he kept saying that hes in the relationship and that she is his future but he also sai its noit a serios relationship cos its long distence and stuff ..this was killing me inside him telling me this was absolute tortchure but i kept a cool head and just listened.. things started to get relly weird because he was saying that if he wasnt in the relationship he would sleep with me and he was saying that im very attactive and havew a great baody and all this shit .. i didnt know what to say so i juststood there cos it was sooo weird him saying that .. he was telling me how much he didnt want to dumop me but he felt liek he had to watch everything he said cos i was getting upset real easy ... ( i had a little bit of depression) but i always treated him right i gave him the world he told me i was the best gf he has had and thta he was thinking of marrying me but then it went bad .. anyway it was getting late so i got my stuff and was goin to go home when i was walkign out to my car he was putting his arm around me and stuff.(weird) then he grabbed me and started cuddling me and saying that if he wasnt in the relationship he would go me and asked me if i went inside would i do anything and im like hell no ur in a relationhip and i hate cheaters i wouldnt do that ever.... then he was like as if u wouldnt do anything and hes like u wouldnt be the 1 cheating i would be im like nOOOOOO thenhes like ohh thats good cos i wouldnt anyway but i couldnt belive it at all i just didnt know wat to do i couldnt beive i was hearing this ... he put his arms around me and started to cuddle me aain then he kisssed my fore head and said goodbye .. i was like wtf ... i dont know what he is doin or whta hes playing at .. do u guys think hes over me fully and she is a rebound or is he playing with me more any sugestions will be appreciated

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