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writes:I have been with my bf for about a year and a half. for the last few months we have been feeling like we are not in a relationship togeher because we live an hour away. I have a co-worker who I had a crush on. I got very drunk one night at work (hes the bartender there) and he texted me wanting to come over and watch a movie with me. When he came over he kiseed me. this isnt the first time that he has kissed me and everytime i push him off of me and tell him that i cant. since i was drunk that night he didnt take no for an answer and had sex with me even though I told him no. I felt paralized and couldnt do anything. I dont know how to tell my boyfriend about this also I think that my co-worker gave me an std as well
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2009): Go to a doctor right away! I agree with Phil...you need to be honest with your boyfriend! Tell him exactly what happened.
All to often we blame ourselves for putting ourselves in dangerous situations. He needs to be held accountable! You said NO! No means No!
Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2009): I would call that rape too. What you should do is go to a clinic or your familly doctor to get tested. DOn't wait intill it gets worse. If it is a bacterial std it is treatible easily and quickly but not nessecarly the same for a virus like herpies,aids etc... go on the internet aswell and check out your symphtoms. Even if you don't have any of them or don't feel certain things you still have to go to a clinic or doctor to get tested right away. A lot of the time people don't have symphtoms.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2009): I'd call that rape, and if you felt paralysed he might even have drugged you. He needs reporting to the police.
I suspect you had an inkling of what he might try to do, given his past attempts, so why on earth did you let him through your door?
If you absolutely must tell your boyfriend, simply tell him that you were raped, and by whom. My guess is that he'll notice some sort of change in you and want to know what the problem is anyway.
Maybe you're feeling paranoid about getting an STD, but it's best to get checked out to be on the safe side. Do you have any specific symptoms?
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