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We have been best friends for a good while, he has gotten a girlfriend pregnant, he did not tell me, should I approach him about it?

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Question - (9 May 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 9 May 2009)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi, Aunts and Uncles.

I am fifteen years old, and I also have a best GUY friend that is fifteen years old. I am a girl by the way. My best friend and I have been pretty great friends since the months have gone on, we have been through our up's and down's but, hey, what friendship doesn't? I guess. I'll get to the point though..

I have known this girl for quite sometime. She lives in another city, but comes to my hometown quite often.

We were recently talking, and she told me she was pregnant! (she has another child btw) I asked her by who, and you know who she told me? MY BEST FRIEND!

My Best friend knocked some chick up, and never told me! I guess they have agreed to give responsiblity.. to the her other baby's father, and he is completely aware of the situation. (she wishes my bff would take responsibly though)

Am I the only one who sees this as wrong? Obviously, 1) I am quite upset that he never told me.

2) I am REALLY upset that he won't take responsiblity for his own child.

I have decided that I am going to approach this subject with him, and tell him what I have found out, I'm not sure how to do it or what do I say, do I even go through with it? I need some major advice.. I am really upset..

:( thxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2009):

Hun this guy is crazy if a guy knocked me up he would defiantly be helping with the baby there would be no way i would make the father of my other baby help me take care of something that isn't his. and man you go right ahead and approach your friend about it and tell him how wrong he is.

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