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36-40,
*-otic Angel
writes:i have known this guy for 4 months nw and recently we have started dating. the problem is that he is too much of a playa but im so into this guy. im so confused bcoz people have been warning me about him and i do not want to listen to them, all i want to do is date this guy and just have an relationship with him . i sumtimes get the feel that he only wants me for sex only. all i do is think about him. should i date his guy or should i just leave him and go 4 sum1 else?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2009): That's what players do! They use women for sex and leave them sad and lonely! Is that what you want?
You feel it in your gut. Listen to those inner voices that are telling you he will hurt you! HE WILL!
Every time we allow ourselves to be used, we tear away at out self-esteem. We internalize it and blame ourselves!
Leave this guy alone. Find someone who will treat you well!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2009): "I'm confused, he's a player". You don't sound confused at all! You want something that you know is bad for you. It's like saying I'm fat, I shouldn't eat Mcdonalds, but I really want a BigMac, fries and a shake. Is that bad, I'm confused? Come on girl, stop acting like a highschool girl. Most likely this guy will use you and eventually cheat, leave or wont even eve commit cause he's not that deep. You may have your moment in the sun to enjoy your time of lust or passion but is it worth it? If you want to be used cause you think you may enjoy it also than at least guard your feelings and be ready for the let down. If you expect him to be prince charming and that everything you hear about him is a lie, than maybe your not that smart? Call a spade a spade. Don't lie to yourself. Acknowledge your situation and don't pretend like you don't understand what your options are. Guys like that are preditors. Once the kill happens they will move on to another while they string you along for as long as you will let them. When you finaly realize whats happening and end your torture, he wont even care. Girls are only easy to manipulate cause you allow it. Stay away.
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